Comedian YY says dating a single mother is too hard and is he wrong?
Kenyan stand-up comedian YY dismissed settling down with a baby mama not just because of the kid, but because most of them act on emotions.
The funny man engaged his online fans in a Q&A question and the issue of single mothers seemed to be a no-go zone for him.
A fan posed:
Can you marry a lady with a kid?
The comedian who doubles up as a TV host revealed he would not mind dating baby mamas but the hindrances that come with such relationships are what put him off.
Yeah if it is of God…
Feel like a third party.
First, most single mums make their child(ren) a priority even before the man and he then feels like a third party.
But most single mothers are hard to love because they make decisions 100% based on their children or how it influences them. This makes you close to a 3rd wheel… “what will my child think?”
Second, these women act on emotions and not based on reasoning and logic therefore creating an imbalance.
It is more of how they feel not how things should be… A great single mother is she who has emotions but only acts on logic.
Third, the MC believes baby mamas rarely heal from their past especially the relationships that led them to having a kid and it becomes difficult to deal with them.
They rarely heal from their pasts.
Fourth is fact that the baby daddy remains part of the woman’s life and seemingly in control of her actions and feelings.
The baby daddy is always in control of her emotions and moods.
Away from single mothers, YY who admitted he is dating, revealed that his woman once felt insecure about his job after he spent more time on shooting than expected.
This disorganized his day’s schedule, and never made it to pick his girl. Following morning, she had every reason to believe he was out with another woman.
Yes, when we were shooting this video with @madtraxx, 😂😂. Tulimaliza 4am, so I couldn’t make it to pick my girl then,.. When I called her after shoots she told me stuff including ‘hope you used a Condom’ 😂😂