Tanasha has finally talked about Diamond’s infidelity and why he lost interest in her.
Tanasha hooked up with Diamond, late 2018 and on October 2, 2019, they welcomed their first child together.
Their relationship just like any other started being rocky along the way forcing her to move out early March 2020. She accused her baby daddy of infidelity.
Speaking in an interview with True Love Magazine, Tanasha said:
I COULD FIGHT ALL THOSE PEOPLE BUT I REALISED I COULDNโT FIGHT ALONE. MY MOM HAS SHOWN ME THAT IF IT DOESNโT WORK, YOU FIGHT. IF IT IS TOO MANY BACK AND FORTH OR WHEN YOU REACH A DEAD-END THAT IS WHEN YOU BOUNCE. I FOUGHT IT ALL. BUT WHEN IT CAME TO INFIDELITY I REALISED I WAS FIGHTING A WAR ON MY OWN
She explained that the relationship started having issues six months before they parted ways.
FOR THE PAST SIX MONTHS, WE WERE STILL TRYING TO SEE HOW WE COULD MAKE THINGS WORK AND THEN IT GOT TO A POINT WHERE YOU FEEL LIKE THE OTHER PERSON HAS JUST LOST INTEREST AND ITโS NOT BECAUSE OF ANYTHING EMOTIONAL I WOULD SAY IS NOT LIVING UP TO CERTAIN EXPECTATIONS HE HAD IN THE RELATIONSHIP. ITโS NOBODYโS FAULT. EVERYONE IS THE WAY THEY ARE AND WHEN YOU DONโT LIVE UP TO THIS PERSONโS EXPECTATIONS FOR SOME PEOPLE IT IS NOT EASY TO HANDLE WHILE FOR SOME ITโS OKAY. I WOULD SAY THAT IS WHERE THINGS STARTED GOING DOWN COS I WANTED TO BE MY OWN PEROSN AND REALLY WANTED TO BE IN THIS RELATIONSHIP. WHEN YOU LOVE YOURSELF, YOUโLL BE ABLE TO LOVE IN A RELATIONSHIP. YOU WILL BE ABLE TO LOVE YOUR FAMILY, YOUR CHILD SO IT STARTS WITH SELF LOVE.
Tanasha said she was slowly healing from the heartbreak and now focusing on her son and music career.
IโM DOING GOOD. I SEE MYSELF AS A STRONG WOMAN. ITโS WHAT EVERY WOMAN GOES THROUGH. YOU MAY HAVE CERTAIN EXPECTATIONS WHEN YOU GET INTO A RELATIONSHIP OR BUSINESS AND THINGS DONโT TURN OUT EXACTLY THE WAY YOU WANT THEM TO. SO THATโS WHEN YOU DECIDE, โIS IT WORTH FIGHTING FOR?โ โฆTHAT BECOMES A DECISION YOU MAKE AND AT THE END OF THE DAY, WE DO WHAT IS BEST FOR US.
The mother of one went ahead to reveal that she doesnโt regret after her relationships didnโt go well.
I HAVE BEEN IN TWO SERIOUS RELATIONSHIPS IN MY LIFE AND I LEARNT SOMETHING FROM THESE RELATIONSHIPS. NEVER HAVE REGRETS REGARDLESS. I WOULD NEVER SAY โOH I REGRET THISโ. EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON AND ITโS ALWAYS A LESSON AT THE END OF THE DAY.
ONE THING I HAVE LEARNT IS TO NEVER GO INTO A RELATIONSHIP WITH EXPECTATIONS. THEY ALWAYS LEAD TO DISAPPOINTMENT.
Tanasha revealed she got too comfortable after getting in a relationship with Diamond and blames herself for that.
WHEN YOU GET COMFORTABLE IN A RELATIONSHIP IT ISNโT A HEALTHY THING BECAUSE EVERY INDIVIDUAL SHOULD HAVE OWN PERSONAL LIVES, THEIR OWN CAREERS, DREAMS GOING ON BUT STILL BE COMPATIBLE TOGETHER. STILL COMPLEMENT ONE ANOTHER.
Tanasha has since been working on herself and has even gotten herself a new home in Runda. We wish her all the best.