Ghanaian house girls are normally brought from the rural areas to the cities to stay with rich or average families.
Their parents give them away because they feel it’s an opportunity to have one less mouth to feed in the house. They are also told the kids will be sent to school and given proper care which is normally not the case.
Below are 13 things house helps go through which we believe are just not right.
1. No school.
It’s sad but these girls who sometimes are quite young are made to stay home and cook, wash and clean while the children of the bosses, go to school. This is even contrary to what their parents are told before they are brought to the city. Those who get the opportunity to go to school are also sent to public schools and even then, they are not regular, are mostly late and have to juggle between school, cooking, washing and cleaning which doesn’t help with their education. Ultimately, they stop.
2. Eats after everybody has eaten.
They do the cooking but mostly can’t eat until everyone has eaten to their fullest. Sometimes they eat leftovers if there’s not enough for them. When they are also served, it’s so little they have no option than to rely on the leftovers.
3. Can’t sit on living room furniture.
So you ask, what is on the living room furniture that these girls are not allowed to sit on? Maybe their bosses feel they are too dirty to sit on the furniture. When these girls are allowed into the living room to watch TV, they are made to sit on the floor or on a plastic chairs that they place in a corner somewhere.
4. Physical abuse.
This is a normal thing. Any mistake they make results in physical abuse which leads to injuries. They can be beaten with practically anything. When they fail to perform a chore because they were doing another, they are beaten. When they break a glass, they are beaten. When they fail to respond when called irrespective of whether they even heard it, they are beaten. Physical abuse is very common for these girls.
5. Drenched with water.
This is normally perpetrated by their madams. They can even be drenched with water inside the house and then made to mop it afterward. This normally goes hand-in-hand with the physical abuse but sometimes they are also done separately. This is used as a form of punishment but I believe it’s very dehumanizing.
6. Made to walk over long distances on errands.
Unless they are going to a very far place, they are made to walk on practically all errands. Even to places where they can get a cab or even trotro, if it’s not far in the estimation of the master or madam, they are not given transport money. They can be seen carrying heavy loads on their walks and walking to the house when they could have grabbed a cab.
7. Verbal abuse.
That’s an anthem for them. That’s the first line of action before either #4 or #5 is applied. The insults can extend to their mother’s and other family members. They are normally reminded of their poor background and how being there has given them an opportunity to get food to eat, else they would have been starving in the village. Even children of their bosses go on this tangent when they want something done irrespective of the age difference.
8. Sexual molestation by master.
This is quite sad and sickening. These girls are normally teenagers and below the legal age but do these men care? House helps are constantly molested sexually by their masters. They get their breasts and behinds squeezed by these men on the regular before it extends to full-blown intercourse. They are blackmailed with the warning that they’ll be sent back to the village if they refuse. In exchange, the masters give them extra money which they also send back home.
9. No proper medical care.
When these girls fall sick, they are normally bought drugs which are administered at home without proper diagnoses. They complain of a headache, they are given paracetamol, they complain of being feverish, they are given malaria treatment. Sometimes they are not even given any drug with the excuse that it’s tiredness so they should rest.
10. Made to wear torn/oversize/outmoded clothes.
When you enter any home with a house girl, it’s very easy to differentiate them from the kids of their bosses. They normally wear worn out, torn, oversize or outmoded clothes which make them look very shabby. They are not regularly bought new clothes and when they also use the little money they are given to buy new clothes, these are normally seized and destroyed by their hostess.
11. Number one suspect if anything goes missing.
She’s the stranger in the house so obviously when something goes missing, she becomes the number one suspect. The other thing is that their bosses just will not want to accuse their kids so they accuse the house help rather. Even when that particular item is found later, the house help is not given any apology. They might even be given a new accusation of returning the thing after being beaten.
12. Blamed and sacked over sexual advances by the master.
This happens when the madam of the house gets wind of the sexual escapade between the husband and the unwilling house help. To protect themselves from having the secret getting out and being disgraced because their husbands slept with their house help, they send these girls away. The annoying thing is that these girls are beaten and accused of being bad girls as if they rather seduced and raped the men.
13. Impregnated and send away.
These men will continue forcing themselves on these girls until pregnancy results, then they rather send the girls away to protect their image and the secret from getting to their wives. There are times too when the women notice the pregnancy but when they get to know it’s for their husband, they also send the girls away to protect the family from public ridicule as they say.
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