Ladies, Here Are 10 Tips To Get The Man You Want Before The Year Ends

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It’s a few days to the end of 2017, but who says you have to end it single?

So you’ve been trying all year to clinch the man of your dreams, and it just hasn’t happened. In fact, you’re scared of going home for Christmas because you know you’re going to get the ‘So are you with anybody yet’ question. Your sisters and cousins are going to visit with their handsome and accomplished men, and you’re on the verge of renting a man just so you don’t have to be the ‘forever single’ person for the 5th year in a row. There’s good news! With these tips, you can get the man of your dreams before 2018.

 

1. Dress to kill

Going out? Make sure you’re in a killer outfit with amazing heels and the best makeup. Remember to look irresistible. When you’re looking and feeling your best, guys will sense that confidence and be instantly attracted.

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2. Exude confidence

Nothing is more attractive than a confident woman. Remember that you are amazing and beautiful, and you are the best thing that could happen to any man.

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3. Make great conversation

Imprint yourself in the guy’s mind by being great to talk to. Get him talking about something he loves. When a guy’s talking about something he’s really into, he’ll get excited and associate those feel-good vibes with you.

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4. Get great perfume

Wear the best perfume you have. Scent is the sense that’s most closely tied to memory,  if you smell sweet, he’ll associate that sweetness with you as he thinks about you later.

 

5. Flirt smartly

Flirt, but not too seriously. You want to make it clear you’re interested while letting him know he’s still got some work to do to get you.

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Graze his arm lightly as you’re talking. Skin-to-skin contact sparks the release of oxytocin, the feel-good hormone, that will make him instantly feel more focused on you.

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7. Remember the important stuff

Strike up a convo with one of his bros. Earning <a href="http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/relationship-advice/ways-to-win-his-friends" target="_blank">his friends' stamp of approval</a> proves that you're a guy's girl who could weave into his life seamlessly.
Follow up on the important stuff. If he mentions a huge project coming up at work, shoot him a text the day of to wish him good luck. He'll read you remembering as a sign you actually care what's going on in his life, which he'll find <i>aww</i>-worthy. If he mentions a huge project coming up at work, send him a text to wish him good luck. He’ll interpret this as a sign that you actually care what’s going on in his life, which he’ll find cute.

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8. Spend your money

When you go on dates, make sure you pay for some stuff. This will show him that you’re not a broke girl who is after his money.

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Be busy sometimes. Don't always text back right away, and make plans to go out with your girlfriends every few Fridays. Seeing how in-demand you are tells him he's competing with others for a spot in your life…a challenge he'll gladly take on.9. Don’t be too available

Be busy sometimes. Don’t always text back right away, and make plans to go out with your girlfriends every few Fridays. Seeing how in-demand you are tells him he’s competing with others for a spot in your life.

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Work just sliver of skin into your ensemble—think, a tight, lacy top or a dress with a peek-a-boo cutout. It'll get his blood pumping, but leaves enough to his imagination that he'll be dying for a peek at the rest.

10. Compliment him

Give him a compliment about something <i>other</i> than his looks. For example, if he's really focused on his career, tell him how impressed you are with his drive. He'll dig that you're picking up on what's important to him.

Give him a compliment about something other than his looks. For example, if he’s really focused on his career, tell him how impressed you are with his drive. He’ll dig that you’re picking up on what’s important to him.

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